Can you hear me?

For this post, I am going to ramble anything that goes into my head.


People say women are complicated. I'm always against this statement in defend that me myself is not complicated. But sometimes I do feel that women are complicated. For instance, I am not quite sure if I have blossomed into a woman or am I still a girl. Immature. Yes, that's what differentiate a girl and a woman - maturity.

Maturity is also subjective and from my observation, people can never be 100% matured. If there are such people, they are not in the circle of people I know. For example, this one person may be wise about decision making, about work or about the future; but he might not be able to control his emotion and feeling. That is not 100% mature to me.

But do we really need to be 100% matured?

What I am sure is that life is complicated. The world works in a complicated way. I am trying to live my life as simple as possible, trying to overcome problems as professional as I could, trying to make the full of my life and at the same time, trying to make people around me happy. At least I can say 'I TRIED".

Is it wrong because I have decided to live my life in a simple way? I don't get it. Why do you want to mess up your life, living the way other people live? Just be yourself and stand up for you rights because you are extraordinary like that.

I don't like arguments. Does that make me an immature person? I mean arguments that is not valid, that should not exist in the first place such as why I didn't reply a text when I have actually seen it. This kind of argument is stupid and I will avoid to continue arguing about this because the answer is clear. You don't need to argue about that. But I do like informative arguments because my facts/opinions are usually not rigid.

I will go deep about another type of maturity in the next post ( if I still remember to write).

So far, do you understand what I am trying to say? Don't think so! Because I ain't good at delivering good speech. :p

Random photo:

Kinder Bueno chocolate fudge brownie that I made 

last week (or more) for a friend's birthday celebration.

~~~yaw!